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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

You Have To Step In Their Shoes

When I find Mr. Right, I'm not going to be able to remember the boy who broke up with me over the phone in 28 seconds. - Taylor Swift as of 2 days ago.

So I still notice that Taylor Swift hasn't gotten over Joseph. I know it was about a year ago, and obviously she felt something deep for him, as he did for her at the time. I mean he did say 'Forever and Always' according to her music. And promising someone Forever and Always is a big promise to someone. They were together for about a month I believe, and I loved them together not going to lie. Taylor is so sweet, beautiful, and talented. And so is Joe. They were great for each other, but not meant to be together forever. It's understandable Taylor has had boyfriends before, but what she felt for Joe was something different. She was fascinated by him and how he loved her for the time. But what disgusts me is the hate Taylor still gets and how everyone keeps wanting to scream 'GET.THE.HECK.OVER.IT' but they just do not understand how rough it is.

I mean really really think about it. Stop what you're doing. Turn off the music you're blasting, turn off the TV, and keep reading and clear all of your thoughts out of your head. Imagine. You're dating the sweetest, caring, funny, charming, drop dead gorgeous boy you have ever met. He makes you laugh like nobody else can, he makes you feel like you're the most precious gift in the entire world. He knows you are a treasure. And he treats you like a fragile diamond. He cares for you. Then one day you two are talking and he decides that he loves you. You ask him 'Do you love me?' and he says to you 'I could never look at another girl the same way I see you. You are the most beautiful person I have ever laid eyes on. Someone like you is impossible to find. I vow to take care of you, be there forever, Forever and Always' You're overwhelmed. You're so in love you can't feel the ground you're walking on, you feel like you are flying to heaven and you'll never come down. But then one day out of nowhere your Angel wings are ripped right out of your back. He decides to tell you it's not working out, he 'just wants to be your friend' but when really he found someone who he THINKS is better. He breaks your heart, tears it right out of your chest and stomps on it with his 2 left feet. This boy who you were sure was the Prince you were going to spend your life with just swept a peasant girl off of her feet and she is going to live your place in his Castle. You're stuck in the cold, standing in the rain, so wet nobody can see you cry. You pray for answers, they never come though. You can't find the thoughts to get over him. It's going to be stuck with you for the rest of your life... and you're going to dread it. Even when your Prince finds you, he's still in the back of your mind. And you are in his.

It's times like these when you have to open up your ears and listen to your heart. What's confusing to understand is that your head longs for him back. Not your heart. Your heart knows what's right and wrong, and it's ready to be healed by your Prince. But you have to listen to your heart. It's hard to not talk about him, especially when your family gets mad at you for it. I am sick of people hating Taylor for something they don't even understand. You have to know how hard it is before you judge. I have been there and it is the most heart breaking experience ever. To loose someone so fast, and ending it like that. Never finding the truth, never becoming friends, Things are broken apart and shattered glass. And they can't be put back together. But if you truly want it fixed, you have to do it yourself. 

Taylor, Joe is an amazing guy as you know. But he was wrong. He left you for a girl who used him. I hate to say it, but total Karma. Just like me, you need to get over him. It's hard, and we all hate it. But your Prince is coming. Wait for him, Juliet. 

Love is on its way.

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